Sambungan berkaitan Tudung yg telah dijanjikan
Maruah & Akhlak…..m/s 68 Tentang Cinta - Pahrol Mohd Juoi
Begitu juga halnya dengan tudung…Hendak menjaga maruah dan akhlak tidak cukup hanya bertudung sahaja. Ada lain2 perkara yg lebih penting lg. Umpamanya, menjaga tingkah laku, berhati2 dlm tutur kata, mengawal pandangan mata, menjaga pergaulan. Selain itu, masa dan tempat wanita itu berada perlu dititikberatkan. Misalnya, jgn keluar seorg diri di tempat2 yg sunyi dan mengaibkan. Ingat, ‘aurat di hati’ juga patut ditutup sama spt menutup aurat pd tubuh bdn. Malah, aurat di hati ini jauh lebih penting dijaga drpd aurat di badan. Maksudnya, hati jgn liar - hendaklah dijaga slalu. Aurat di hati ditutup dgn rase malu…..
Kalau hati masih liar walaupun sudah bertudung, maka tingkah laku akan menjadi liar juga - pergaulan bebas, pandangan mata tak dikawal, keluar hingga jauh2 malam, berada di tempat2 maksiat, maka ketika itu tudung pun tak akan mampu menjaga maruah dan akhlak diri. Tegasnya, tudung hanya mampu menjadi perisai pada akhlak dan tingkah laku, jika soal hati, elemen dalaman, spt iman, keyakinan dan yg seumpamanya dijaga.
Tapi igt, menjaga elemen dalaman bukan alasan utk membuang tudung. Kononnya, yg penting hati..Bukan begitu maksud sebenarnya. Spt memakai topi keledar juga. Ia tetap penting justeru bagaimana sekalipun kite berhati2, mematuhi undang2, kekadang terjadi juga kemalangan. Bukan disbbkn kecuaian kita tp kecuaian org lain. Waktu tu siapa yg bertopi keledar mungkin kurglah sedikit risiko menghadapi cedera parah atau maut.
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sambungan nya Dua Yang Berbeza…nantikan kemunculan nya
August 18th, 2006 at 1:29 am
aiseh..aku kne sambung gk r komen..tp xigt komen dlu per..huhu
August 18th, 2006 at 1:40 am
hehe…leh je cek bwh2 tu..nnti ade sambungan lg tu..
August 18th, 2006 at 6:46 am
you know your entry would make a nice bulletin post.
i do agree most wholeheartedly.
some of my friends reply, when asked on why they are still sporting free hair, that they are ‘not ready’ yet, and that they will wear the tudung when the time is right. yang penting hati, that’s a common one too.
Allah has clearly ordained that a Muslim woman should always cover her aurat (note that this does not strictly mean ‘wearing the tudung’ but covering all of her body besides her face and two hands, so as to not give any impression of her figure). Whether or not we comply to His laws is subject to Allah’s judgement, but as the same with all other religious practices, we are to perform these duties with the obligation of a servant obeying his master.
It is neither a matter of choice, nor preference.
If a Muslim woman wears the tudung out of her own volition, for her love of her deen, and for her love of Allah, that is surely the best.
And if a Muslim woman feels that she already has a strong conviction in her faith, that her looks and appearance are irrelevant to her akidah because her heart strongly believes in Allah (yes, one cannot deny that what the heart believes in is of utmost importance), and that if she does wear a tudung, it will not be with a willing heart (ie, tidak ikhlas)… she should still wear one anyway.
There is a term - istikhlas - that describes this situation. Islam is not a forceful religion. Though wearing the tudung may be considered a hassle or a burden to some, practising it is a responsibility, because fundamental logic dictates that if a person claims to being a Muslim, therefore he or she must follow all of Allah’s commands. so even if wearing the tudung requires some taking used to, it must nevertheless be exercised without excuse. and the initial dislike, in time, should make way for acceptance and contentment with what Allah has asked for us to do.
Allah most certainly knows what is best for his servants.
I myself am aware of my many shortcomings, but we must all strive to be better. That is what being a Muslim requires of all us. And we owe it to Allah, to our religion, to try become the best Muslims we can be.
wallahua’lam.
August 18th, 2006 at 7:43 am
alhamdulillah..very enlightening comment..thanks a lot maddie..insyaAllah we will be a better Muslim if we have clean niat or sincere with our action..get the right people and knowledge..and istiqamah with it..plus always doa..
“Ye are the best of peoples, evolved for mankind, enjoining what is right, forbidding what is wrong, and believing in Allah”
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